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violent ex can he take me back to court once out of prison

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bobbie3081 · 12/03/2011 14:54

wander if any one can help after 11 yrs in an abusive relationship with a much older man i finally moved away 2 and a half years ago, since then hes been dragging me and the kids through court for access which he got supervised , but he has since been involved in a couple of violent episodes both of which resulted in knives being used the latest one he stabbed a neighbour , telling people that its all my fault !! hes currently on remand in prison when hes served his sentence is he allowed to drag me back through the court system for access ?? Confused or can i now start to draw a line under it all

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HelenMumsnet · 14/03/2011 12:49

@Maryz

Told you things start disappearing as soon as JH is mentioned by name. By the way, mmm, that website you linked to is shocking.

We have no problem with anyone mentioning John Hemming, maryz. But we do have a problem with people implying JH has any link with melvinscomment. Trust you understand.

Resolution · 14/03/2011 12:55

Blimey - just noticed the OP has only posted once.

Bobbie - Hope you've managed to winkle out some advice from all that's gone on since your post.

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sneezecakesmum · 14/03/2011 20:30

Confused Things are getting weird here!
Biscuit

DartsRus · 14/03/2011 21:18

I did not link a certain person to a certain poster. I mentioned that this certain person does indeed have a certain verifiable forename, which can be widely googled.

CaptainNancy · 14/03/2011 21:46

Well bobbie- I'm sure that's been really helpful and informative for you Hmm

StiffyByng · 15/03/2011 17:02

Am completely confused!

My thoughts on this are - when your ex emerges from prison, and the existing court order is in place, who is supervising contact? Is it supervised by social services or family members? If social services, have you talked to them about how they feel about the situation? And if not, still worth asking social services their view?

We were also in a situation with supervised contact, although quite different to yours, and only found out after it was all over that social services had their own concerns about contact taking place at all, but hadn't contacted us about it and had instead been in communication only with the NRP. This may be unusual, but don't forget they may be able to support you here.

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