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Naming a guardian in your will - does it matter if they are overseas?

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EldonAve · 04/03/2011 22:48

Our current named guardian has announced his intention to relocate overeas - probably permanently

Due to other circumstances we are reconsidering our choice
But our alternative guardian is also overseas - does this matter?

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fivegomadindorset · 04/03/2011 22:56

I have no idea whether it is legal or not but i think you should look at the wider issue of whether you want your children to relocate to another country if something happens to you, taking taking them away from friends and wider family, or whether you want your children brought up in this country therefore would the guardians relocate back here.

EldonAve · 04/03/2011 23:03

Thanks yes that is a consideration
We would not expect either to relocate back to the UK

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Resolution · 05/03/2011 00:36

The guardian could also be someone who you want to make the decision about who the children should live with, so they can be overseas. Both grandfathers are guardians in the wills of my wife and I, as we'd expect them to sort it out amicably at a family conference.

northangerabbey · 07/03/2011 09:59

You could still appoint them as guardians, but express the wish that the children actually live with mr and mrs x. Otherwise, there could be problems.

EldonAve · 07/03/2011 11:33

thanks

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oiwhatsoccuring · 07/03/2011 11:40

Guardianship is not legally binding in a will anyway. If the children are old enough to have cogent views, ie above 7 or 8, then their views count just as much as the late parents wishes.

slug · 07/03/2011 12:03

Inlaws are our first choice of guardians. They live close to us. The next choice are my brother and sister who live in NZ.

The lawyer who wrote up our wills is also our best friend. He knows our situation intamately and saw no problems with the overseas guardian bit. It's also noted somewhere, though not, I think actually in the will itself, that if the worst should happen around the time DD is sitting GCSEs or A Levels and her grandparents were also dead/unable to look after her, then she may decide to stay in the UK with BF/lawyer as guardian.

Resolution · 07/03/2011 12:13

7 or 8 is too young for the children's views to be determinative though.

EldonAve · 07/03/2011 12:16

I thought it only goes to court if there is a dispute?

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Resolution · 07/03/2011 12:41

It does, but if the ultimate carers for the children are not granted PR in the will, then they will have to apply to the court for a residence order, which will vest PR in them.

EldonAve · 07/03/2011 12:59

Thanks for the clarification

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ShowOfHands · 07/03/2011 13:04

When sil died, her ds didn't go to live with the person named in her will. It was a bloody Sad situation all round.

SnapFrakkleAndPop · 07/03/2011 13:15

I don't expect the guardians I will be naming for DC when I modify my will (to hopefully reflect save arrival of said DC) to actually take on looking after them if they don't want to, so it shouldn't matter if they were overseas. I expect them to make the decision about where they should go in the best interest of said DC, which is why they are not a family member, otherwise there could be a messy international battle.

babybarrister · 08/03/2011 12:19

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Resolution · 08/03/2011 12:41

I have a sensitive side.....

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