I posted this is two wrong places so am trying here now!
What happens if there is no financial settlement agreed after divorce?
My solicitor said to me at the time the divorce went through that I should not re-marry until a settlement is reached but I didn't question this at the time.
I have no intention of remarrying but I am getting worried about what would actually happen if I died suddenly. I have changed my will leaving everything to my son and my best friend to be his guardian (live with her) and she be executor of the will.
Butbecause there was no financial settlement, what would happen if he found out I had died...could he still contest any money/property? The house is in my name only.
We had a second rental property which I sold and have invested some of the money, spending it as I go as I earn peanuts. Obviously exH pays no child support at all.
He took ten grand savings with him and depleted my overdraft limit too leaving me ten grand in debt, which I have managed to clear off.
Could he even dispute my will and get custody of ds too?
I dont know whether I should write to him (I think I know where he works but it would be v difficult to get in contact) and ask him to put in writing to me that everything is owned by me and he makes no claim on anything?
I dont know how to sort this out. Or even if, after being abandoned by him for 3 years now with no contact, I really need to.
One other thing: on the divorce, the court ordered exh pay all costs relating to it but I didn't do anything about that because of the circs. I paid the costs myself and the sol suggested I could pursue him through the small claims court.
Is it too late to do this now (divorce came through over a year ago) and can I make a claim when there is no prospect of him paying the costs and I dont know how to serve any papers on him? It might be useful in future for there to be a CCJ against him? I have no email, phone or contact address for him but I know he is alive as he is traceable on the internet.
GHaaaah. Am i fretting unecessarily ??
agreement ever, is FLIPPIN expensive and I dont want to get into it all with him until or unless I really have to.
ExH disappeared abroad nearly three years ago now, and I have no contact. Son was 6 months when he ran away.
Anyone?