Hi I am very very confused my the whole benefits system and was hoping someone could save me 2 hours on the phone :-) I am currently unemployed and reliant on benefits (i am trying to find a job). My ex has just offered to give me £20 a month to treat the kids and to pay £40 a month each into their child trust funds. I am very happy with this as I manage on benefits and I'm hoping its only temporary anyway and I am pleased that the DC will have some money towards first home/university/travel when they fly the nest. Do I need to tell the benefits people? And if yes do I need to tell them both about the £20 a month and the savings payments? Thanks