I've been summonsed for the first time, but I'm now staying at home permanently with our nearly 2year old DS.
Is this reason enough for deferral? I can't seem to find any info online about it, it just says you have to pay for a childminder and redeem the money, or if someone who is not registered looks after him I can pay them £1 a day....
He's currently at nursery one day a week.
Problem is, the nursery would need loads longer than the 6 weeks notice they've given me, plus it's unlikely they'd have the availability for the 2 week period. Also the nursery costs £75 a day which I imagine would be outside the costs you can claim back, and there's no way we could afford to just pay the difference.
At our nursery you also have to pay a deposit up front, so I might pay this and then not even be called - again leaving us massively out of pocket.
I don't think I'd be able to find a childminder in 6 weeks (judging by my local friends' experiences), plus what if it went on for months - I wouldn't be happy to leave him for that long...
Any advice? I'm a bit gutted as I've actually always wanted to do it, but now the timing is just off. I've got no local friends/family who would be able to have him for 2 weeks either.
If anyone has any experience with this stuff I'd be very grateful to hear your views.