Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Larger families

Find out all about large family cars, holidays and more right here.

I'm struggling with 5 ....advice anyone?

3 replies

sparklesandwine · 17/11/2009 18:42

At the moment i'm really finding it very hard to juggle everything that needs doing we have 5 dc - ages 11,7,4,3 and 1

how do those of you with 5+ children cope with this? I do everything (just about) dp does what he can when he's about, he works long hours and is often away on business, he does offer emotional support which saves my sanity quite often!

I have no family close by to help either, and although my mum says she'll come and help me if i need it i don't like to ask as she is not in good health

I think i just struggle with the day to day running of the household, homework, cleaning, ironing, ferrying people around etc
it seems never ending. my 2 youngest boys are arguing non-stop too which is wearing me down, ds1 has developed a horrendous attitude seemingly overnight and DD1 is struggling at school so i need to try and give her extra help where i can

plus fit in clubs, friends round for tea and some kind of social life myself

i'm sure i could fit it in if i spent 24hours a day in my house cleaning and organising but i just don't want to!!

sorry its a bit garbled and goes /tips i suppose from others with a large family

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
sparklesandwine · 17/11/2009 18:44

last sentance should read

sorry its a bit garbled and goes on but i'm just after any advice/tips from others with a large family

OP posts:
LongStory · 17/11/2009 20:27

Wine, a good job 3 days a week, routine, wine, my mum, a husband who works from home, wine, a handful of good friends, a secret lover, spending all my money on fantstic in-house childcare. Made one bit up, guess which . Not sure if this helps much, wouldn't cope if I had to do it all myself. Hat off to you, have a glass!

sparklesandwine · 18/11/2009 20:08

have moved over here

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page