What is a big family? 3, 4, 5??

[BananaSkin]

I often wonder when I read this forum title, how many you need to have a 'big' family.

I think 4+ children....could be wrong though

we now have a family of 5 after giving birth to our twin boys june last year, we are both educated people, my husband is a managing director in his own company, we are both physically, emotionally and financially stable to support our family so seeing as we are not relying on anyones help or support I feel it would be unfare to say the least, to refer our family as wrong, big maybe but not wrong :-) this is my first day registered with this site and cant seem to manage smileys, also I think I can work out some of the abrieviations but a few pointers would be nice please :-)

Very jealous Mum41plus5! Have been ttc #5 but it's not happeneing and dh is beginning to give up....large famillies are lovely, I'm one of 8!

Mum41plus5, don't think anyone was saying you were wrong were they?!

Think the OP was just asking what constituted 'big' - no judgement attached.

I'd say 4 or more.

i have 4..i'd say a big family is 5+ dc..

4 is pretty normal.

I'd agree with 4+.
I have quite a few friends with 3, and I don't think of them as having 'lots'.

Mum41plus5 - have a look next to the box where you type your messages - there is a list telling you how to do the different faces. There used to be an acronym list at the top - I'm guessing that it is now in 'useful stuff' ... you've joined us just as the site has had a huge overhaul so I'm not 100% certain where things are anymore. Hope you are here to stay

Oh- and, Mu41plus5 - I agree with spongebrains, no one is saying that there is anything 'wrong' with having a big family.

MUM41plus5 what are you talking about? I would love a larger family and just wondering what people on here perceive as a larger family

ours was planned for 4 but after 3 girls when our scan revealed twin boys we were as you could imagine over the moon although we had decided our 4th would be our last just happened to be 2 and 4 became 5. Thanks for the tips Tigerschick and yes, seems to be some interesting and knowledgable discussions and advise on this site so would love to stay

Actually I think you were referring to mrsdisorganised and her comment. No, she meant she may be wrong to think that people on here think that 4 children make up a large family.

Oh you'll have fun on here ...

I think 5+.

OOOhh sorry Mum41plus5...didn't mean to confuse! Not good with words sometimes, BananaSkin is right! (thanks)!

Anything less than what you have seems small

Had four at lunch yesterday and it seemed sooo calm!

Four+ I would say..

On the larger family threads we welcome anyone though !

mrsdisorganised, you are a woman after my own heart, I am the youngest of 7 and wouldn't want it any other way and apologies if it came across that I felt it was insinuated my big family was wrong but it was actually mrsdisorganised comment that 4+ could be wrong but having read your profile I realise thats not quite what was meant hope all is forgiven, must do a profile but again no idea how, must be baby brain still after 6 months

"Anything less than what you have seems small"

That's a very good observation, RiaP.

Yay! You got the smileys (took me ages and i've only just learned to link!)! Apology accepted!

mum41+5 WELCOME!

I am mum41+6!!

I love 3 girls then 2 boys sounds lovely

Hello RiaParkinson, thanks for the welcome. my 41 applies to my age and yes I do think life really begins at 40 and obviously the 5 my precious offspring, do you have girls, boys, both? would love to know, its nice getting to know people in a similar situation although having looked at some of the different topics on mumsnet I think I could have an imput on most as so many are familiar to me as you could imagine 41 with 5 children

yes i am 41 with 6

5 boys 1 girl

For this section the consensus is 4 I believe

I'd love more but not going to happen- DH but for sensible reasons. Only know 3 other people with 4 though, not a lot!

I think 4+ is a larger family. It is round here anyway as most families seem to have 2 DC's. I am biased though and like to think of my family as a big family (4 DC's)

I'm still thinking about no.5 so you never know!

4+ I think.About when it gets hard work.And you have to get the bigger car.And the family size pack of well everything.And people tell you I don't know how you do it.And they have to ask if you have a telly.However 5 kids was where it all went pear shaped,we never recovered from the chaos,and we no longer care.