im broody and dh has just had the snip! boo hoo!

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i just need to get this out before i scream, i want another little baby, i cant explain it but my twins are 3 now and i miss having a little baby in the house, just feel so sad because i agreed to dh having the snip(we have 8 beautiful kids already).i know theres no point in asking dh to get a reversal,he just does not want anymore, its like im sort of greaving for what i cant have. is this normal or have i went bonkers??????

I'd say it's just coming to terms with what you'd decided.

Focus on the positives of not having a baby in the house (there are some )

eeeeeeeek your poor body - be thankful it can rest now!

My dh had the snip only 2 weeks ago. I am a little bit sad about it even though I don't want anymore (we only have 3 though!)

im sort of "going off" dh, well the bedroom stuff anyway...just seams like there is no point to it. hate being like this, hes lovely , great man ,great with the kiddies and my rock, and bloody gorgeous too!will this pass?

No it won't. Best you divorce him now, send him my way and find a new man who is "intact" so to speak

Same as Doesnt. You are coming to terms. I feel a little bit like this about dh's snip.

Even had mad thoughts like - we might manage to conceive before his samples are clear if we try hard - tis madness. I know deep down I don't want any more.

DS is only 6 months and I miss him being a newborn and I'm sad that I'll never have another tiny little one. Sad that I'll never give birth again.

But I do not want any more dc! I know it I know it I know it! (and I only have 2)

You probably need to get used to the idea of having sex just for fun again. You must've had years of having lots of baby-making sex - must take a while to get out of that mindset.

Give it time and stay close to your dh in other ways and you will enjoy it again.

Ooh God when would it end though? Would it end?

After no.4 we're both being sterilised otherwise I think, having originally only wanted 4 and been adamant about that, that I would go for 6 !

Dh was thinking the other day about when our babies are born in the year and he concluded that when the youngest gets to 1yo I get broody and decide to have another. We fall pg straightaway and bobs yer uncle.

He has a point.