any of you go on to have more despite your body saying no!

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I'm not sure if this is the right place to post but i only have 2 and would just love to have 3 or 4. the problem is i had an awful birth with dd (bad tear) i then had ds via elective c-section. i didn't have a good pregnancy either with ds. anyway, i don't want to go on as i know there are those who go through worse but i really feel that my body is telling me not to get pregnant again but i am so so desperate for another one. my dh says we should adopt which i like the idea of but i really want another of our own. i just wondered if anyone else has been in a similar situation? sorry if i sound silly!

I had severe morning sickness with all 4 DC, hospitalised with 2nd. Had 4 c-sections as well. Was sterilised after 4th section as consultant advised. My womb was very thin around scar tissue and he felt I would be pushing my luck. You have to DH and existing DC first.

I would listen to the experts - I was told I could have a 4th baby providing I didn't go beyond 38 wks because my womb was thin (I had my 3rd at nearly 40 wks).

I always wanted 4 DC as I am one of 4 and am not a fan of an odd no. of DC IYSWIM.

You have to consider DH and existing DC first (whoops!)