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Toxic mother

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Jenny2020 · 03/10/2024 04:47

Hey all this is a long one ..

for as long as I can remember my mother and I but heads .
she asked me to leave one morning and I did and never went back .
she then used to call me all night and message literally 4,5,6 int he morning which resulted in a massive heart attack with stress .
we then rekindled and I had a little girl .
now she has always had a say in everything . We stay in different towns and that's my fault that she can't just pop in . It's my fault I didn't drag my baby two buses to see her .

but recently me and my partner went through a bad time like really bad and I told her because I was at my wits end ,
this was a whole year ago .
she now will not talk to my partner or let him in the house to even pick up my daughter .

now we are engaged and she won't say congrats and has decided to not come to our engagement party .
im at my wits end with her my little girl loves her but I don't know if I can put up with any more pettiness

has anyone else experienced this ?

there are many more things but thats the joys of it

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allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 07/10/2024 16:14

@Jenny2020 you have called her toxic! then you have her looking after your child and she has your number???? toxic means toxic for a reason. get rid of this toxic mother! no contact means no contact at all. after all, she told you to leave her house!!!

Emmz1510 · 07/10/2024 16:35

I’m not sure how you could allow someone who parented you the way she did care for your little daughter. And the fact she is still being self absorbed, petty and toxic now means she hasn’t changed much.
Regarding your partner it was probably a mistake to over-share with her. But you can call her out now on this and say ‘look mum, what’s your issue with my partner? I know that what happened happened but I’ve forgiven him, we’ve gotten through it and I need to you at least try to be civil now.’

Jenny2020 · 08/10/2024 18:49

I totally get where youse are coming form . She is my only family member I have and tbh as a girl I don't want to loose my mum but I know something is not right ,

when I shared with her my issue with my oh it was because I felt I needed her there in that moment and now she won't even allow him in her home ti pick up our little girl .

she was never a bad mum but I feel the way she acts now it's like she doesn't want me to grow up or be happy :(

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