I have a DS 9 a DD 7 and just just just had a beautiful boy. It could be the hormones, but am I crazy to think about a 4th? I think it would be nice for the baby to have a buddy to grown up with down the line when the other two are older. And I feel like we’ll already get two hotel rooms in holiday and we have a 7 seater car and a 5th bedroom, so why not? If you have a fourth did it balance things out? I’m 40, so while we had zero issues conceiving my third I would probably do IVF to ensure a healthy baby, because I know the older you get the riskier it is. I should also note I’m a SAHM with a housekeeper/nanny, so I really don’t feel stretched thin at all at the moment and financially we could 100% have a fourth without having to cut back on anything. My mom is one of four and so is my dad, I remember growing up and looking at my aunts and uncles at family parties and thinking, I love this I’m so lucky. My husband actually said when we went for #3 “are we doing 3 or 4?” I laughed at the time, but now I’m like what’s one more??? I guess if you grew up in a big family did you like it? Do you love having four kids? Was the jump to four a big deal?