My husband wants to look after his parents

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Me and my husband have been married for 10 years. He has got a job abroad and has moved whilst me and my little one are living with his elderly parents.
So from cleaning the toilets to house shopping, house chores i do it all.
My husband is still sorting our visa so we can't leave yet.
However I'm sick of doing all of these bits.. how can I tell my husband?
I dont want him to feel like I dont care about his parents, I do care but I am completely burnt out!

Please answer some questions. If you and little one leave who is going to take care of his parents? If they cannot care for themselves he may not be able to get a visa for them.

Six months is plenty to sort out a visa. He should have had it ready from the start. This seems intentional from him.

How long is the job for? Why weren’t visas sorted beforehand? What happens to his parents as they get even older?

Good god.

They've turned you into a house elf.

Do you have access to his money? Do you work yourself? Do you have a passport?

This sounds like you've been had. Massively.

You are under NO obligation to stay in captivity and servitude to his family, that he has happily swanned away from, leaving you holding the toilet brush.

If you don't have a job, get one. Find a flat. Move out.

You don't have to do this.

He may accuse you of not caring about his family. That's to manipulate you into obedience.

Ah, the entitlement of men. This is nothing new for certain, many men expect the woman to care for both the children and his parents for him, while he’s off doing the very important things.

Yes!!! This is exactly what I'd be like