I have a four year old and a baby - absolutely love this age gap and tbh love that it hasn’t all been rushed and over. I feel like another 3-4 year age gap would be great before a third as it would be better financially and give them all lots of time with me. I had to leave my last job so it would give me time to find and settle into another one when my current baby is 12-18 months.
The only thing is I’m 34 and not sure if leaving it a few more years is too late. We did ivf and I have some embryos left so the plan would be to transfer one of those, so the actually embryo would be younger, if that makes a difference. Would it feel too long prolonging it all for a third time do you think? Has it caused issues with family time and do you wish the gap was smaller?
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Anyone got three with 4 year gaps between all?
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Ididivfama · 21/03/2024 14:37
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pambeesleyhalpert · 21/03/2024 14:50
My mum did this so I was 4 when my sister was born, I was 8 when my brother was born and my sister was 4... we did all argue quite a bit but now we're all in our 20s/30s were really close and have been for prob 12 years. Me and my sister would fight the most when we were younger but no one fought with our brother!
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