Looking for a hand hold and advice
2dc DD 6 DS 15 months
I've just found out yesterday I am pregnant, my heart longs for baby no 3 but we lead busy lives I run a business from home and DH self employed long hours we also have a small holding so slot of work. DH so far has said it’s my decision. I’ll be honest he wasn’t the most supportive DH during pregnancy & the newborn stage and i finally feel life is back on track.
I know an abortion will rack me with guilt and I’ll be likely to not forgive DH for some time over it. I worry life will just be too much with 3. I am so torn over what to do.
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Farmwifefarmlife · 29/02/2024 21:41
Farmwifefarmlife · 29/02/2024 21:41
Looking for a hand hold and advice
2dc DD 6 DS 15 months
I've just found out yesterday I am pregnant, my heart longs for baby no 3 but we lead busy lives I run a business from home and DH self employed long hours we also have a small holding so slot of work. DH so far has said it’s my decision. I’ll be honest he wasn’t the most supportive DH during pregnancy & the newborn stage and i finally feel life is back on track.
I know an abortion will rack me with guilt and I’ll be likely to not forgive DH for some time over it. I worry life will just be too much with 3. I am so torn over what to do.
Farmwifefarmlife · 01/03/2024 06:54
Thank you both for your replies. I don’t know why I want a 3rd I just do. We have a big enough house, would need a bigger car though. Concerns are mine and DH relationship , the first 12 months are so hard lack of sleep and newborn stage is generally difficult. Worried about not having enough time for 3 children and the older one feeling neglected. Worry incase something is wrong with the baby or something happens to me. I’m 28 DH is 38. It’s just such a big decision, I also like sleep!
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