I know it’s been done to death (I think I’ve read every thread on here) - but please talk to me about having three children!
Currently have two small children with a 2y age gap. Youngest is almost a year old. I really want a 3rd child, and have done since my eldest was born.
It’s obviously early days, but I have been lucky to have loved motherhood more than I thought I would. Despite having a nice life and rewarding job prior to babies, they have given me a sense of purpose and contentment that I never felt beforehand. I want to bring a third member to their little team and get to nurture another person.
Am I being ridiculous? Everyone seems to think so when I mention I’d quite like another. If we had a third, I know it would be more difficult on a practical level, more expensive, more time out of my career, I’d be spread more thinly, another roll of the dice in terms of all the potential health risks to me/any future child. Why upset the applecart when I love what I have now? Knowing all of this doesn’t seem to be putting me off.
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Another third child thread - talk sense into me please
Nicepie · 18/02/2024 20:10
Penguinpairs · 18/02/2024 20:13
If you know all these things then what is stopping you?
YukoandHiro · 18/02/2024 20:17
How old are you? Are there any risks (medical etc)? Is your partner up for it?
I would have had 3 if I'd a) started younger b) had easier pregnancies and c) had a younger partner. It was too risky for us but for other couples it would make sense.
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