I live with my in laws. It’s just the two of them. I have two little ones who I do absolutely everything for. Like I tend to every need I get everything for them. Till this day they’ve not got them anything except a dress. No toys nothing and when my family gift them toys she’ll say there’s too many and she doesn’t need them. She’s a baby they love toys.
Anyway my mil is always trying to pull my daughter from me. I say something and she constantly undermines me. My husband said it’s normal but I don’t think it’s normal to be so nosey over kids who are not yours. My daughter goes through phases like when she’s obsessed with me for weeks on end to the point she won’t leave me alone and then for like a week she’ll go to her mil to play or soemthing and every so often come back to me to play with my hair or something.
I noticed that my mil forces kisses feom her or gives her kisses and says oh thank you for the kisses when I know full well she’s not given her any. It’s always soemthing she does to almost bother me. She knows it bothers me as I have PND and these were factors that triggered me maybe from unsolved trauma I don’t know. Like my daughter will be all over me. Not leaving me alone/ kissing me cuddles the works stuff she doesn’t do with anyone else.
Will she always love me the most