I know this is a topic discussed in a thousands of threads but please help me!
We have 2DCs (DC1 - 3 years old) & (DC2 - 1 years old). I found the age gap wonderful and although my first is a terrible sleeper, the second one is like a dream!
I am thinking of having a 3rd and as I like 2 year age gaps, it's about time to decide if it's right or not.
I know finances is a big issue and it's individual to everyone's circumstances, so you can't help much of that. I can understand that a 3rd bring challenges in logistics like car, space etc.
However, I want your experiences on how a 3rd affected relationships and time. I appreciate that the first couple of years will be a struggle like with every new baby but after this do things calm down? Does it worth it? I don't want to risk my relationship with DH and start arguing over nothing just because we are both utterly tired and can't handle the chaos.
My first made me a mummy and my second gave us a stronger sense that we are a family. What will the third do? Will it bring drama amongst us? Or will it bring joy and happiness?
DH is positive but has the same concerns as I do.
Any experience will be very welcome!