Husband did the school pick up and semi arranged a play date for while he’s at work and I’m at home and for me to sort the intricacies out and actually host the play date.
Now my husband actually said for the play date that I can have the children at my house because the mum who he semi arranged it with will have all 3 of her children (half term) and then our eldest aswell and it “might be a bit much for her to have everyone at once because her husband is at work”.. bare in mind .. WE ALSO HAVE 3 CHILDREN! 5yo, 1yo AND and 9wo! so I have the same amount of children but even younger than hers. I’ve said this is so classic for him (thinking of the damsel before me) and he’s blew a lid, saying he can’t even talk to a woman without me going mad, completely missing the point that I’m peed off that he thought about her being put out more than me so I’m now hosting the play date while he’s at work on my own with 4 children 🥴
Am I in the wrong about this? Because he’s sulking and saying he won’t apologise for occasionally thinking about other people before us because he spends most of his time dedicating everything he does and has to us (as do I yet never say a word or act like a martyr doing it).
He said he forgot we had 3 children too (I don’t know how!) and just thought it might be nice for the other mum (we don’t know her or her husband, they’ve litterally had chit chat and found out she’s from his hometown, I’ve spoken to her over text to sort my child going to a birthday party). I hate having animosity in the house, we rarely have cross words so when we do it’s a big problem but he’s so stubborn he can never see he’s done wrong.
I have no issue with the woman, no issue with the play date, the issue is with my husband and the fact he claims he forgot we had 3 children and thought more about another woman/mum being put out than me.. his own wife who gave birth to his 3rd child only a matter of weeks ago!