2 to 3 children??!!

[Mumlifeof2]

Hi,
I have just found out that I am pregnant with my third child, I already have a 5 and almost 2 year old. I can’t shake the feeling of freaking out!

Both me abs my partner work full time and on top of that I am doing my law degree, this was completely unexpected as we were being safe. I’m thinking about literally everything like not being able to give my other children enough attention (my youngest has epilepsy and doesn’t walk or talk yet because of the seizures, and anything triggers them so he literally can’t even be left for a second), having to get a bigger car, day trips where I will have to buy more tickets, not being able to afford to go on holidays, not being able to complete my degree, the night feeds, the bottle sterilising and everything else. Also I am worried about what my family will say about me having three children.

I guess I just want some reassurance that it will be okay and won’t be as hard as I think.

Thank you in advance xx

Congratulations! Yes, having a third means a bigger car (if current one too small), more expensive holidays etc but you adapt.
My experience is that parenting was much easier third time round. We also had SEN second child but once we were a family of five it felt like a really secure unit supporting that child. Yes the sleepless nights happen but they pass and I felt so much more confident third time round. Mine are all at school now and it's much easier. We were in a good routine from the start which helped. I don't know if you can take mat leave from your degree but hopefully you can. Tell your family you're suprised but delighted. You've got this ♥️

I had this. Was twins! Am O.K. now, they are 7!! I wouldn't be without them and I love the chaos. My top tip would be don't sweat the small stuff. Ask for help from family / friends if you need it. Lots of people love babies so are happy to help. Good Luck