3 to 4

[Hey15]

Hey everyone, me and my husband have been thinking of trying for baby number 4
We have 6 year old 3 year old and a 19 month old,
Money and housing is fine.
Is going from 3 to 4 really hard?
I find my 3 quite easy at the moment all moderately well behaved. Of course they will have their moments. I have always wanted 4
Everyone thinks I’m crazy and my 3 are still young!!x

Personally I found going from 3-4 easier than 2-3!! 14 months between 3+4.
2.9 between the others.
Imo if you can cope financially and don't expect free childcare from relatives it's nobody's business!

Thank you!! I don’t work my husband earns enough for me to stay at home luckily!! X

I have 4 aged 9,5,3,and 1 and I absolutely love it, wouldn't have it any other way x

I have always wanted 4
Nice to hear good stories x

Watching

I think with decent age gaps it's fine. I had my last two very close together and it was tough when they were little.
They're 15,9,6 and 5 now and it's great. The mess seems to ramp up massively when you get to four though, and the washing is ridiculous.
You do need to be organised, everything sorted the night before for school, everyone has a time table for homework etc...
I say go for it