So longggg story short it’s my dads 50th this month and I asked him in dec what he had planned and he smiled and said it’s not for him to organise. So I’m thinking right il message his wife and get things organised as we live 5 hours away etc. She messaged saying she is taking him away for the evening and then her daughter to doing a surprise tea nothing major. But no invite so I continue to tell her what my dad said and she just kept repeating herself that her daughter was doing something for him so okay.
A week before his birthday her daughter messaged asking if we would like to come, but now I have a week to try and get some extra cash for petrol, try and get time off work etc!
I spoke to my Nan the other day who mentioned she got invited weeks ago! The same day I asked my step mum what the plans for. I’m hurt and upset I don’t understand why they have left it this long to invite me when they know I have a son and Xmas etc and they tell me I’m going to have to get a hotel if I come down? Am I right to be upset I kinda feel like it was deliberate. My step mum made it clear that nothing was being planned for his birthday however she invited my Nan for a surprise tea but didn’t think to invite his daughter. I have raised my opinion and I’m just being blamed and kinda oh well attitude