Looking for some advice from everyone. I have 2 dc one 4 1/2 and one almost 10. We currently live in a 2 bedroom house so dc share a room. We are looking into building an extention (if we get planning permission and a loan to do so). Mainly because my oldest dc has been talking about having his own room. My problem is I recently have been desperate to have another child, I just can't get it out my head. I always wanted a bigger family. Partner is quite happy to have another. He lives life by, jump into things and deal with the consequences later. I, on the other hand am not like this, I worry endlessly.
We are by no means "well off" but we live a decent life, can afford to buy what we need and extras, have a couple of holidays (not expensive ones) a year.
Everything is telling me not to have a child because we will have less money, I'm worried something will stop us extending our house, my work is quite unreliable money wise, and the list goes on but I think if I don't bite the bullet and have another dc I will regret it later.
Need some words of wisdom from people that have been through similar situations. I'm so confused!