I am meeting mil for the first time after having my baby ( her first grandchild and my first baby).
Me and her are v tense. She has been forceful , intrusive and disrespectful.
I tend to be passive. I want to be assertive.
What are good boundaries to set as a first impression?
She is coming for a month and half from abroad.. has tenss to use everything in her power to control my marriage and would manipulate my husband and use my son...
I think she does things without realising. I don’t wanna hurt her but I want to set boundaries because she gladly hurts me.
Plz advise on what boundaries are good to set