Hi guys/gals.
I am new I don't know if this is the correct place to write this or not but here goes the looonnng post.
I am a 27 year old mother of 3 girls 5,4,2. They all have speech problems. My 4 year old is still in nappies because she doesn't understand she also still puts things in her mouth that she shouldn't like car toys ect so the school is thinking she has sensory issues. My 2 year old can't walk due to low muscle tone and is getting a special walker and shoes. I have major anxiety so don't leave the house unless I'm with my partner (kids dad).
The kids constantly fight and don't do as they are told my partner doesn't help at all apart from getting the kids from school, nursery, playgroup. He works mon-thur 5pm till finish usually 10pm
Friday 1pm-finish Sat-sun it varies.
I do absolutely everything else apart from taking the kids to school and picking them up. Iv even got to ask if he has clean uniform because he doesn't put it in the wash unless I ask how many sets he has.
Anyway for the past 3 year we have been in this house we have had our windows smashed and we don't know who it is as we keep ourselves to ourselves . we have high rent arrears so we can't move but the health visitor said that she would speak to the council. My partner was on the sick in may so missed payments for his finance payback for the car so I have that stress too we have no money for Christmas we really are in deep 💩. We got a phone call from social services this morning to come out this afternoon so we said yea fine thinking it was about the housing situation but turned out my eldest had told her teacher I smack her dad now this isn't the case my partner likes to say to our eldest I hit him because he thinks it's funny when she gives me wrong. He will be in the sitting room and I will be in the kitchen and my partner will say mummy just hit daddy and she will come through and give me a telling off. So that has me more stressed. Also when we told the woman about the windows and that our youngest daughters window was borded up for 4 month
July-Nov and I showed her the picture of the glass in her bed just glad She was at my partners mum's that night the social woman said there is nothing they can do. But it's ok for her to say the kids are fine but I had to come out because of what your 5 year old said. I'm like wtf the windows been smashed is a safety issue for the kids and I'm also scared to be in the house at night, I'm not sleeping either. I said we want to move but I don't want to take the kids out of that school. Her reply was they can't help intervening with the council and for me to go to the doctors and pack everything up and move miles away to England.
Is this seriously true that they can't help. Surely windows been broken where there is glass in my kids bed should be a hazard to them like it is to me, I'm wanting to move to get away from this, if she had been in her bed she would of been cut or the rock the size of a rugby ball could of hit her. My neighbour told us this house has always been a targeted house because we're on the end and when it was empty they would break in. tbh I didn't like social woman anyway but yea anything anyone can help with. Oh I'm in Scotland btw but originally from England been here for 7year my partner was born in Scotland.
Sorry for the long post and thank you.