Help I need advice me and my other half have a 19 month he has two boys from ex wife 9 and 5 I would love to have another child in a year or two my other half doesn't think he could cope he is disabled I work full time night I don't want to force him to have another one as thats not me I really want another child but I have to think of him too he has said he doesn't want me to resent him if we don't have anymore do i go with what I want or think of him too I don't want him to have another child with me just cause it's what I want I'm so confused on what to do