My LO is 10 weeks. My SIL and inlaws are extremely dominating and are such a huge presence in our lives I can't handle it. My SIL can't conceive and will have IVF next year. She is very odd and I think unhinged. She rocked up to the hospital uninvited when LO was born, dominated the entire visiting hour by saying how she wants to steel her and she can't wait to feed her and take her out in her pram...she begged me to save her a pooy nappy for her to change. This all really unsettled me after I'd given birth. Then she turned up to the house 20 mins after I'd got home from the hospital with my partners dad who hadnt yet met LO and then she ended up holding her for ages, my partner made sure she has a good hold, but I wanted her as she is my baby!! Then she stuck her fingers in her mouth and said 'look she wants a dummy'..I hated it! My partner didn't say anything and wouldn't have my back. Now she's coming up for 2 weeks and my MIL keeps saying she's going to take over and laughing about how she's going to 'take over when she gets here' and how we won't get a look in. I don't want to hear this! But I get no support from my partner and he just tells me to stop slagging his family off. His mum try's WAY too hard with my daughter. She has bought a cot for her house for when she has her for 1 day a week next year when I return to work. She's getting wall paper, and kids curtains. She already has a toy box full of toys and books. She's bought her own pram too. To top it off shes made up her cot with bedding when my daughter was 7 weeks. I said to my partner there is no need for her to do this at this stage and he said to stop having a dig at his mum. My partner sees no wrong in all of this, he doesn't think they are over the top and we can't reason with each other on it. I am so anxious, angry and upset all of the time as we Alwaya have to see them. I feel helpless and just don't know what to do!