Hi Iwon, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I have had 4 sections. I was 31 when I had my first section and 39 when I got my last.
I recovered really well from all of them. Though found the fourth harder to recover from. I was lucky, no infections from any. I don't know about outer and internal scarring and certainly my consultant diddn't know anything. I have had the babies in 3 different hospitals so never ever had the same consultant.
During my pregnancy with my fourth child I had scarring across my womb (bottom of my womb) but there was a chance the developing baby could have limbs amputated by the scarring, as apparntly the scarring is as sharp as a sword. I was told the chances were very remote, and got an extra scan later on in pregnancy. This scarring was due to previous sections.
Also whilst in theatre, after the baby was out but whilst being stitched I had terrible nausea. I have never had that before. The nausea lasted for about 8 hours after, I was given medication to try to combat the nausea. I got sterilised before I was stitched back up so this could have been reason for harder recovery and nausea (I have no idea)
Also fourth baby came out seemingly healthy. After 2 feeds (so less than an hour old) was taken to special care baby unit as an infection was suspected. He was fine and I got him back the next day. Apparently this is quite common in c section babies!
I would say that the first 2 sections I was pretty much recovered after 2 weeks. Third section recovered same amount of time but felt the first few days worse than previous 2 sections. 4th section I found the first few days after the hardest. Took about 3 weeks to feel I could do thing again without too much strain.
I had some help for first 10 days or so post birth but pretty much nothing after that and I managed. After fourth section my kids were 7,4 and 2.2.
Oh before children I had two laperoscopies.
I haven't had any health issues so far from all the sections. Hoping that will always be the case! I do have a terrible overhang but think that might be more to do with all the cakes I eat.