I have an 11year old dd1 (from a previous relationship)
18month twin boy and girl
4month dd3
been with dp 10 years this year. so pretty stable relationship - but have our moments.
experienced what i presume to be ligament stretching pain, with last 2 pregnancies. never experienced them when im not pregnant. started off with them yesterday and had one today.
im still a week away from period due date and pregnancy test today was negative.
not sure how i'll/we'll cope, dp attitude is not supportive. he is a bit like, fuck! our life is over- you wont see daylight until your 40 (3 yrs away) although he said it laughing. says, we wont be able to do this or that- we have made plans for this and that. he has used the abortion word, but ive shot that down. told him he knew id never have an abortion from the beginning and if he pressures me, i'll kick him out.
sorry its long. ive been up over 2 hours cant sleep. dont even know i am yet.
can those of you with 5 or more reassure me? is it harder?
worrying about my mums reaction too. she picks up the slack for dp, as he was armed forces until last week and therefore never here. so now he will be here but no job. his redundancy would keep us going for a couple of yrs though, but would scupper the afore mentioned plans.
eek!