I lost my dad when I was a child and I'm finally coming to the age where I can retrieve it (after the family house is sold).
I've been with DP for a couple of years and we're thinking of moving in together.
Now, we're not married (and I don't want to unless I can secure down this money). But also I'll be moving two hours away from 'home' - if I buy in his area and if we split up I don't particularly want to be tied down to that area. Also, we can't save for our own place as I'm not entitled to first time buyer - right now we're thinking of renting but he's not particularly happy as he's got enough for half a first time buyer deposit.
I'm not sure what I'm asking but basically how can I invest in a property and make sure he's not able to have any of my dad's money? We're going to try renting first just to confirm we can actually live together.