Hi Mumsnet, I need some help. After 7 years of IVF treatment our last frozen transfer has failed. I have a beautiful amazing son from our 5th round who we are eternally grateful for and I have unexplained infertility. I turn 39 next month.
One consultant suggested I may not be falling pregnant naturally because of an operation I had on my bowel when I was 25 causing possible adhesions that may mean my tubes and ovaries aren't inline so the egg can't ever meet the sperm.
I would love my son to have a sibling but I know I have to accept it may not happen. However as a woman, I want to know what's happening in my body. I want to get a laparoscopy to see what's going on, if there ever was/ could be a chance of natural conception. Am I mad, do I leave it alone, has anyone been in a position like this? For closure I feel like I need to know but the NHS isn't quick at referrals is it. I don't want to be waiting forever, if laparoscopy can potentially resolve an issue i want to know asap as my egg reserves will be lower now. Pleas help