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off fertility treatment and feeling sad

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paigelucyyyyxoxox · 05/01/2026 11:24

hey so i been ttc for 3 years and 2 months now and done 7 rounds of clomid (100mg) found out my last round failed and i have emailed and said i don’t want anymore treatment as its affecting my mental health i told my friend the last round failed she’s pregnant with her 3rd so im having to hear stuff constantly about her pregnancy which is hard and sometimes she can be insensitive but i told her i was sad about it and she literally ignored how i felt and went on about herself and always a good friend to her and always listen to her problems she even started moaning that her jeans don’t fit her anymore and her nice clothes don’t fit and i let her vent to me about it when i don’t really wanna hear you complain about that stuff when you know what im going thru but because she’s meant to be my friend i listen and support her but i feel like she’s not a good friend to me

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Miraclemuma03 · 06/01/2026 23:47

Im so very sorry your cycles havnt worked. Your friend is an insensitive a-hole and id probably put some distance between you until your mentally back on track. Is there any way you can talk to someone about a full cycle of ivf? Is this something you would consider?

paigelucyyyyxoxox · 07/01/2026 08:22

@Miraclemuma03thank youuu and yeah we have had a lot of disagreements atm icl because she ends up being so insensitive and it hurts me at times i do let her know when she’s upset me aswell and she do apologise but it’s just hard it happened for her again first try and she got the gender she wanted too as she said if it’s a boy she’s gonna get rid i’m happy for her and i love her but she makes it really hard to be her friend fr and unfortunately i don’t think me and my husband could afford ivf as we already have a 7 year old i got pregnant at 17 had him at 18 so i don’t think we would get a free round just sucks that might never give him a sibling literally wanted a big family and i know it’s not gonna happen for me and seeing all my friends have a big family and i don’t is really hard but i try not to let my emotions get the best of me but i appreciate your comment girl💕

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