ttc

[paigelucyyyyxoxox]

hey been ttc for 3 years and one month and recently found out my friend is pregnant with her 3rd first try and she’s having a girl i’m really
happy for her but i feel sad at the same time for me and she also complains a lot about her clothes not fitting her anymore and i do feel it’s a bit insensitive to be saying that, am i overreacting?

Oh I feel you @paigelucyyyyxoxox ! It is so hard, especially when some people get pregnant SO easily when you are having a hard time. Honestly, I have avoided certain people who are pregnant at times when I'm finding things hard. Do what you need to do to protect your mental health.

Does she know you are ttc?

I think people who haven't struggled with fertility just don't understand how hard it feels.

@HM2024she knows i been trying for 3 years and im glad you can see where im coming from it’s just feeling really hard atm and feel like its never gonna happen for me 😢

Im so sorry OP! I know exactly how you feel. Ive been trying for 3 years and 2 months now - unexplained secondary infertility. I also have friends who are currently pregnant - im over the moon for them, but completely heartbroken for myself.
I have 1 friend who is pregnant with her 2nd child - due in the next few weeks
I have another friend due in May with her 3rd - it was unplanned.
Ive already had other family and friends who had their 2nd, 3rd, 4th baby whilst ive been struggling.
I just wish it would be my turn already. So I know exactly how youre feeling 😞

@Enn1234 3 years and 2 months for me now 😭my friend is pregnant with her 3rd first try and as much as im
happy for her i do feel like she kinda shoves it in my face she even started complaining that her clothes don’t fit her anymore and it upset me she was complaining she also said if it’s another boy she’s getting rid and guess what she got blessed with a girl!! don’t make no sense i also told her im feeling sad cos my last round of clomid failed and im done with the fertility treatment now and she ignored what i said and started talking about herself it’s been really hard for me icl and yeah i have secondary infertility too girl my son is nearly 7 years old and only have the one and it’s sad because everyone else my age has given their child a sibling and i physically can’t i always wanted a big family fr and i know that’s not gonna happen i would literally be greatful for one more child, baby dust to you!! you deserve it sm 🫶🏻❤️❤️