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Feeling so frustrated

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PurpleLake · 29/10/2025 09:23

Hi everyone.

It's been 3 years of trying and I've never had a live birth, just 2 miscarriages. Still no answers and it's all being classed as unexplained.

After a year trying to concieve we started doing IVF privately as NHS in our area would only fund if no clinical pregnancy for 2 years and under 35. Have just had two failed transfers and now planning more tests which is costing a small fortune before transferring the last embryo.

I'm just feeling so frustrated and deflated. It happens so easily for so many people and I feel like I'm stuck in a bubble whilst everyone else's lives (and pregnancies) keep moving on around me. I feel so isolated because of it. The financial strain is starting to get to me as well. I've made so many sacrifices and I just don't know if this is ever going to end. I can't make sense of it and it feels so unfair.

I just need to vent and to share this, so thank you for reading.

OP posts:
Iduj · 29/10/2025 12:28

Hello, I hear you i am stuck in the same situation. Everyone around us is getting pregnant so easily and fast. I have a pregnancy announcement every week. It feels so bad. I will pray for you to have your baby soon. Keep yourself busy with things you love. I subscribed myself in a Yoga classes for a year. We should stay perseverant. It will happen soon for sure.

PurpleLake · 29/10/2025 18:27

Thank you and sorry you're in the same boat. It really makes it so harder when it's working out for everyone else! That's a great idea, I've been doing a lot of yoga videos online!

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Iduj · 29/10/2025 19:05

I know.honestly we weren't prepared for this challenge! And every time I read online about couples who waited 3 years and 4 years it makes me anxious! Just dont lose hope and keep trying every month it's a new chance. I will pray for you

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