Lowkey pissed off

[paigelucyxx]

Hey, I’m feeling a bit pissed off with my friend. I’ve been trying to conceive for three years. Found out she’s pregnant first try with her 3rd All of last week, I literally had to hear everything about her pregnancy She even sent me her positive test literally had to listen to her symptoms and her talk about it obviously said congrats to her as well Literally told her had a fertility appointment the other day she didn’t even ask how it went only thing she said about it was I think you will get pregnant. You’re just gonna need a really high dose and then started going on about herself once again. Like where tf are you when I need you?? Seriously she been airing my voicenotes too, really don’t hope she expects me to be there for her during her pregnancy because I’m done atp my bestfriend was so right about her and she warned me she’s sly and sneaky and now I see it

I’ve had a similar experience. The only thing you can do is distance yourself. It’s awful to go through all this and also mourn a friendship, but that’s the way I would describe it.

I did speak with my insensitive friend, well, had a breakdown and cried at her a lot. Didn’t make too much difference. People are different but I think some peoples narcissistic traits are so strong that even when their lack of self awareness is pointed out, they might acknowledge it and apologise as she did, but then just forget immediately and revert back as they were as they dont really care so it doesnt register.

In my case, even though she has toned it down a bit, it’s SO hard to unsee the nasty side- I’m not convinced our friendship will fully recover. Especially since others have said, well she is always self centred like that- what did you expect. I was clearly just blind to it before!

@AlmostTime so sorry u went thru that girl☹️some people are disgusting yeah i do feel you cos exact same with me! She’s selfish and literally makes everything about her just greatful for the 2 friends who have been my rock💕are yous still friends? d

We are civil and do go to group meet ups and stuff. Haven’t arranged to see her alone since all this happened though, where as we did used to hang out just the two of us before.

She’s definitely tried to be a bit more sensitive since her daughter was born so I’m willing to give it time.

@AlmostTimethats fair enough and understandable I think my friend and your friend would be good friends 😂😭it’s just so hard to be supportive when they are shoving it in our faces, like you aren’t the only ones to ever get pregnant 😂I ain’t spoke to my “friend” since Monday anyways I’m not bothering anymore I tried so 🤷🏻‍♀️x