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Coparenting after loss

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Glitter8 · 10/02/2025 10:42

Hey,

looking for advise on how to deal with a situation, my self and husband have had 4 miscarriages and 2 ectopic pregnancy’s. We never discussed these issues with people until 14 weeks ago, where we told family and my SD.

SD Is with us, 2 nights in the week and Saturday and Sundays. We collected her as usual Saturday morning to be presented unexpectedly that her biological mother is pregnant, 10 weeks. In tow with my step daughter comes a scan photo for her to have at our home.

the Biological mother is aware of what’s happened within our family unit. We have done everything we possible can to support her within previous difficulties but can’t help to feel this has been a vindictive move

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PinaColadaJ · 10/02/2025 11:00

@Glitter8 , I have no great advice here but I just wanted to say that I really feel for you - what an incredibly insensitive thing to do.

Like many suffering with infertility &/or loss I’ve had my fair share of insensitive comments/actions over the years & the only thing that has helped me is some professional counselling. It doesn’t “fix” anything but it has helped me to manage my emotions & better ignore other people.

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