Hello ladies,
thank you for taking the time to read my post!
I have just done my second ER age 41 and Pgt-a testing showed 3/4 were aneuploid ( 2 were missing 1 chromosome each, one was complex abnormal with some mosaicism). The last one was no result so will be retested. Fingers crossed but not hopeful.
The grades were between 4AA , 4AB, 3AB and 3BB being the no result one.
I’m disappointed but not surprised, given my age.
My first ER resulted in 2 blastocysts ( 1bb transferred but negative) and 2bb ( frozen) so the second round was more successful- we travelled abroad for it and it was a great overall experience with them. First time I had OHSS, this time not. Treatment in the U.K. for us was unsuccessful, expensive and far below the care level that we received abroad.
I got 16 eggs, 12 mat, 4 fert and 2 low blasts for the first. Second I got 9 eggs, 5 mat, 5 fert and 4 good grade blasts. Always had good follicle response and amh has been between 2.6 and 1.6 fluctuating. So I’m counting the second as a ‘success’.
I followed ‘It starts with an egg’ supplements for the second round and in between I’d had acupuncture for a few months but finished 6 months before ER2. For ER2 we had ICSI with zymot to improve fertilisation. I have had an era and will look at solving issues with that once ready to transfer they say - chronic endometritis
( 99% bad bacteria, no good bacteria) probably down to MMCs or C-sec years ago?
I have had naturally conceived live -severely prem live birth 17 years ago with mosaic Downs. Successful and strong now. Different dad this time so maybe irrelevant.
My problem is that I’m torn between being optimistic about this being “just a bad round for euploids, maybe better next time considering my age ” and questioning giving up and going to donor eggs because I might never get anywhere.
In my mind, I want to keep going with my own eggs for now. I don’t want the ‘what if?’ and to give up too easily. But also I don’t want to be unrealistic. I find stimming no problem, it’s just cost and fitting around work that’s the hardest part.
Anybody got any similar experiences? Any advice on things I’ve not yet tried? I’m looking to doing IV NAD+ and glutathione. Don’t think I can do growth hormones because of high breast cancer risk. This risk also scares me with multiple stims.
Is it just a numbers game or could I just have poor eggs from the start?
Much love