We have a 2 year old conceived via IVF on NHS, we had 1 frozen embryo from that round which we transferred in October and failed. We were so deflated and sad that it didn’t work and have looked to pursue 1 round of IVF privately (financially this is our limit). I’m 38 and feel time is ticking but I get moments where I feel overwhelmed at the costs (we are using most of our savings) and the prospect of it not working and then i worry about coping with a toddler and a baby if it does work (my toddler has a sleep regression at the moment which doesn’t help). Has anyone else had this dilemma. I’m just feeling overwhelmed by it all and having conflicting thoughts. I also worry about having regrets in later life if we don’t try. Any advice / support welcome!