I am going through the same thing right now, just found out that our 8week baby stopped growing/no heartbeat. Waiting for medical management at the end of the week and will get the tissue tested, actually hoping something was wrong from the start and that it wasn't my body failing. We were hopeful this time as my previous losses happened so early (I know 8weeks is early too but it doesn't feel like it right now).
We have done preliminary testing (bloods, blood clotting tests, ultrasounds, sperm analysis).
I will be moving forward with saline ultrasound, HSG, going on antibiotics on the chance I have endometritis, Karyotype testing, testing for BV& ureaplasma, Semen DNA fragmentation.
I want to get autoimmune testing but Dr told me to wait for a couple months as pregnancy and loss can throw the results off. Curious about testing for natural killer cells too.
We have had back to back losses and so we will take the next three months off, let my cycle return to normal and get all the testing done. I was hesitant to wait for my pervious losses but I am hoping the changes I make this time around will results in a healthy pregnancy.
In the meantime, I am will be on my prenatal, 600mg of ubiquinol, vit. D, magnesium (at night) and a small dose of melatonin at night. DH will be taking ubiquinol and Vit. D too.
We are going on the anti inflammatory diet, no alcohol, no dairy, no gluten, no sugar.
I am curious about trying blood thinners for our next round. I am under obstetrics care now but I am hoping to get an appointment with reproductive endocrinologist.
Have you read the book "It starts with an egg"?