Hi all,
Booked a holiday to Malaysia when I was waiting to hear if I would be having IVF funded by the NHS. Found out a few days after booking that I would need to self fund. The IVF journey is happening much quicker than with the NHS (which I am so happy about) and I’m due to have my egg transfer at the end of July.
However (and you can probably predict what is coming…), the clinic want me to cancel my holiday to Malaysia otherwise I will need to postpone treatment for three months. Totally understand it. I’d researched a part of Malaysia that has had minimal Zika rates and has a low population of mosquitoes but they’re still not happy about it.
The holiday is booked for the end of August so I should know by then if IVF has worked. Is there anything stopping me just going anyway? The clinic have my passport details but I’m assuming they can’t track my comings and goings?
Obviously IVF is the most important thing to me and I’m happy to cancel this if needs be. Having a baby after years of infertility hell is so much more important to me than a trip. But if I can avoid losing money and I’ve already had the treatment, what is stopping me?
If there is anything I’m being naïve to, please, please, please tell me as this process is all very new and heavy to me right now!