My DH and I are thinking about starting TTC again after one round of failed IVF and and a second round that worked, but resulted in a loss discovered at the 12 week scan, end of January. Prior to IVF we had been trying for 2.5 years and constant hope / disappointment cycle nearly left me feeling really quite depressed. Since the loss, we haven't tried at all. We've had sex bur whenever we fancied and not remotely aiming for the window. I'm now feeling ready to give it another go, but I would love some tips on how not to get lost in to the downward spiral of symptom spotting and desperate hope followed by depression each month when my period arrives. We aren't ready to do IVF again yet, we might consider that in a few months, I just wanted to try again naturally to begin with. And also, does anyone have any good books or podcasts they can recommend to help me keep my head?