Didn’t know whether to write this in the Infertility or pregnancy bit sorry.
IVF pregnancy that a few friends are aware of for various reasons. As advised started testing daily before transfer after trigger shot to see the tests go to negative so could see if any positive was genuine. Friends have asked how it’s gone on as obviously they know when transfer was and that we’d know by now. The reaction was why are we bothering testing daily, it’s a waste of plastic and the environment, and basically they didn’t and I felt so so stupid and nearly ashamed. That testing doesn’t make a difference and we should just wait and see. I understand that not having been through infertility and IVF you don’t get it. That it’s not a happy couple of months with lots of sex and it magically works when you miss your period. you’ve not got a stupid anoint of life savings riding on this and holidays and job prospects are on hold/planned around flexibility for appointments.
That the clinic need to know if it was a chemical or not. That you don’t start your period when on stinking doses of medication to keep a pregnancy going. That urine testing and having to have blood tests and early scans is asked by the clinic, and to be honest I can’t imagine not doing it. Being prepared seeing lines fade if it’s not going to work is going to suck but actually be more useful. I don’t think I’ve got anyone to talk to in real life now. I don’t know what I’m saying or asking, just wanted to write it down I guess.
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Feel I’ve been shamed about pregnancy testing
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Comadot · 23/03/2024 19:37
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