Could I just ask please.
I have had 3 miscarriages. One was a mmc only shown on the 12 week scan. One was lost nearly 10 weeks after seeing a heartbeat at 7+1 weeks. One was a few months ago when I had a fresh embryo transfer and although I tested positive nothing was seen on the 7 week scan.
My doctor said she discussed with me on our consultation that I should self refer to the miscarriage clinic after that failed. It maybe that she has or it maybe that she did not see th e importance of it, in any case it
really didn't stuck to me that I have my miscarriages investigated before I have this last embryo transferred, so it wasn't done.
When I saw my acupuncturist after my embryo transfer she asked me if I was on heparin as it has been 3 miscarriages already. The clinic said they didn't put it as part of my treatment plan as I haven't been investigated and the NHS won't include that as part of the funding. I don't mind paying for it.
After pushing for the blood thinning medication and aspirin as per my acupuncturist advise they agreed but the clinic also said there is a risk in taking aspirin before 12 weeks (I am 5 weeks plus 4 days today) that it can affect the fetus and can cause pre-eclampsia? I don't know how big of a risk it is though as they did agreas for me to take it.
They said that they usually don't give these 2 medication because I haven't been tested on the NHS and that it was not proven that I have clotting issues because I haven't been investigated.
When I asked my acupuncturist about the risk, she gave me a passive aggressive reply and said she is not a doctor etc. etc. She said it looks like I am hesitating on taking the blood thinners. (felt like she pushed me under the bus)
I told her obviously one should check medications before taking them so I am so stressed now and do6know what to do.
The problem with so called experts is no one wants to take any responsibility nor give you advise when as a non expert you have no idea what is for the best.
Has anyone in here had miscarriages and had taken aspirin 75 mg and Enoxaparin 20mg injections and had a successful outcome? Or Any advise for me please.🙏
Is the risk low?
I am 44 and I don't think I'll ever be able to do IVF after this. I am pregnant now and want to do my very best for this pregnancy as this maybe my last chance.
Thank you all. xxx