We've just bitten the bullet and paid for a frozen embryo transfer (FET), which we hope will result in the birth of a second child... After getting VERY lucky the first time around and conceiving after our first embryo transfer, I'm really struggling not to get carried away with hope that it'll work first time once again. I KNOW the statistics, so it's more likely it won't than it will. I'm also not sure whether we can afford another go straight away, so I'm trying to temper my expectations.
Any tips on coping with the mental strain? I'm worried I'm going to go completely loopy in the wait between the transfer and the pregnancy test. My DH seems mellow, but I have a feeling he's hiding his hopes from me to try and protect me from feeling any pressure (he's a sweetie like that).
Any similar stories, please? I know how lucky I am to have my gorgeous DD, I am just dreading getting back onto the emotional rollercoaster that is assisted conception. In typing this, I realise I'm probably already there!