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Hope after baby loss - 2 years ttc

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roro87 · 19/11/2023 16:48

Hi All,

A bit of back story. We had my son 3 years ago almost after about 20m trying. Tbh in those 20m I didn't know a lot about ovulation etc at the start so would have been less if I'd known. When he was 9m we started trying for number 2, that was September 2021. This time I was 100% I wasn't waiting 2 years doing nothing. So after 6 months we started with clinics. I was diagnosed with pcos and perscribed meds also IUI was recommended. We switched clinics and did ovulation induction with lethrozole (failed) and gonal f ( Worked for ovulation but not pregnancy) then onto ivf. Two low grade embryos one failed to implant one on ice. That was may 2023. Then I felt so down medicine and our back up plan failed us. So I started my research cut out gluten and sugar and caffeine as much as possible. Looked at my vitamins and tweaked them and went to more holistic treatments. I got pregnant in July we only did bd once.
Each scan I expected bad news but he was hanging in there but I always felt there was something wrong and I was terrified to tell anyone. At 17w his heart stopped and he was born sleeping. He was perfect

Now I get to my question did anyone suffer infertility but get pregnant quickly following a loss? I'm back on all my vitamins and meds and gf etc again. I just can't go back to where I was it almost killed me.

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username131024 · 19/11/2023 19:36

Hi @roro87 - I can’t add much about chances of conception but I didn’t want to pass by without saying - I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to bear the loss of a much wanted and loved baby.

Wish you well on your journey.

roro87 · 19/11/2023 19:52

@IslandsintheOcean thank you so much. Its almost unbearable and the worry of if that was our chance is almost too much.

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