We’ve been trying to conceive for 6ish months now and nothing is happening. I’m 33 and he’s 32. Ironically I work for the nhs as a doctor and am anxious about the reality of waiting times etc. I’m being eaten up about not knowing - if pregnancy isn't going to happen for us, I’d quite like to know so I can move on with my life. I am not a obs/gyn doctor and find much of what is online either very basic, contradictory or even wrong. Symptom spotting and scrolling the internet for those who thought they would never get pregnant and now have, isn’t healthy for me (although I am super happy for those people, I feel it could be giving me false hope).
Just wondered how the process works, you go to GP who takes a history, then refers you to an infertility clinic? What sort of timescale is it? I live in Scotland if that helps. I also know the nhs says 1 year but for me that suggests it’s a resource issue. Surely if you haven’t conceived in 6 months, the likelihood of one of you or your partner having a problem goes up.
Thanks in advance. Apologies for negative post, I’m just upset and miserable!