Hi everyone,
i am totally new to all this and looking for some (ideally recent, given NHS wait times since COVID) experiences with ovulation induction and possibly IVF on the NHS.
i am a 31 year old (slim, no insulin issues) female, and came off the pill in October after 13 years on it. I had a couple of bleeds, about 6 weeks in between, then nothing since February, and obviously no pregnancy. I used my private health cover to see a gynaecologist who did bloods and scans and diagnosed PCOS, and has recommended proceeding with my partner having a semen analysis, then drugs for me to induce ovulation which I will need to do on the NHS due to insurance not covering fertility treatment. My partner has his test next week, and I got referred to the fertility specialist today. This left me pretty down actually, I have been waiting over 2 years for another referral for my back on the NHS, so I dread to think what the wait times are like for fertility specialists!
does anyone have recent experience with the NHS? How long did it take to get referred for ovulation induction.
if we pay and go privately, what is included and how much roughly would everything cost?
furthermore and thinking ahead, if you were then referred for IVF (due to denen analysis or induction of ovulation failing or no pregnancy after over a year) how long was the wait list?
my worry with all this is I am 31 (partner is 40, but luckily for him it seems almost irrelevant what his age is!) and I remember reading somewhere the NHS cut off is 35. While this seems like a long way away, it doesn’t feel like it when you factor in the NHS waits, and that there is a whole process to try before any potential IVF anyway. This all makes me very nervous, and I’m someone that likes a back up plan or 2!
also FYI, we are based in Hertfordshire, as I know there is local variability to wait times.
hoping someone has some recent experience, in the absence of any I am imagining the NHS is a no-go with waits and I’m going to have to financially, emotionally and psychologically cripple myself to stand a chance of having a child 😢.
Thanks for reading, look forward to hearing from you!