I'm currently 14DPT, 13DPIUI on my second IUI. The first try we had 1 mature follicle & a very low post wash (1.9m) and it of course failed. Period came after CD26. This cycle I am CD27 and spotting today 😠I expected it as I've had premenstrual symptoms for a bloody week now. Sore boobs & cramping so I just knew it had failed again.. the only thing confusing me is my cervical position. I do check it before my period and it's always low and hard to touch right before my period so along with the spotting it matches up that AF is arriving. This time it's still high and super spongy which contradicts what they usually say position and feel should be right before AF but the cramps, boob pain and spotting tell me otherwise and I feel like I'm clutching at straws because I desperately don't want to accept failure for re second time. Again we only had 1 mature follicle (left ovary didn't respond both times so looking to be lazy after 15 years of contraceptives) and fiancé had a low post wash again (2.7M) it's always good on test washes but performance anxiety seems to be getting the better of him on IUI day. We are entitled to 1 more IUI on NHS before 1 cycle of IVF but our doctors have recommended considering moving to IVF instead of trying IUI again. I'm conflicted because I feel like we should use all the free options we can but equally it's a lot physically and emotionally if it's going to be pointless.. if we did move to IVF and that failed too we aren't allowed to then ask to go back to IUI which is what is making me want to try that last IUI regardless knowing we did everything we possibly could 🥺 it's honestly so mentally draining at this point which I'm sure you can all relate to!