I know what you mean.
About 8 weeks ago we received our results and were seen by a gynaecologist, told we had male factor infertility and to get to London and start IVF
I created a post asking for IVF clinic recommendations. A fair few women responded and told us to see a urologist. If it wasn't for them, we would probably be starting IVF.
In terms of worrying, I read so many success stories on here re the surgery - that helps. Ie they fell pregnant.
Try and remember that it takes a sperm and an egg. If we get that sperm as healthy as it can be, then surely our chances are far better than they were before.
For my DH, it was a quick op, he got a taxi home afterwards and was wfh the next day.
DH was big - 6mm and he had minimal pain.
Me telling you not to worry won't help but I'm so glad we've done it and mid November can't come soon enough.
One other thing is that the surgeon told us not to ttc for 2 months. I'm at the 5/6 week mark and ovulating today. Lol.
When is his OP?
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