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Looking for a handhold / support TTC after 2 miscarriages

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Busybird123 · 21/02/2023 11:58

Hi All - Needing a handhold or some support ... To keep it short - Been TTC since Jan 2019, All tests done - no specific reason found/ went through a round of IUI in Feb 2021 = unsucessful , fell pregnant naturally in July 2021 - lost Aug 2021 . really just survived from then on , had a chemical pregnancy in May 2022 .. had some tests done - no reason found from early loss clinic , they suggested to take aspirin and progesterone from next positive test. I have gained the best part of 3 stone the past 2 years with the whole thing .. we have another round of IUI to go before we decide to do IVF .. i am so stressed about it , feel like i can't get my head around to losing weight / preparing my body as i have been left down so bad (i lost about 2 stone before my first pregnancy worked really hard but then when i miscarried) i now feel whats the point ... ahhhh I guess I would just love to get some kind words of support or any positive stories from anyone that has been as unfortunate as myself :-/ ... also feel like i have no friends i am self employed work from home most of the time and am feeling quite low

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Rosebud2022 · 21/02/2023 21:09

Hi @Busybird123 I'm so sorry - it's so hard what you're going through. Having a miscarriage is traumatic enough, never mind two, and then carrying on ttc can make you feel like you're on a hamster wheel just going round and round. I know a bit how you feel- i had a miscarriage last year in August/ September time - since then I've put on a little bit of weight and generally feel a bit down about myself. It's a huge emotional turmoil what you're going through so try to be kind to yourself! I don't have a positive story for you yet but I'm there with you if it gives you any comfort. Try to plan things that you wouldn't want to be pregnant for so that you always have something to look forward to xxx sending a big hug

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