Hi,
I don’t anything to offer in terms of positive experience in the end, just solidarity of having similar happen.
My egg collection was mid January, 25 eggs collected (I have polycystic ovaries, so expected a high number). 17 mature, 11 fertilised by ICSI. At day 3 all we’re doing something - mix of strong 8 cell ones and a few slightly slower at 6 cells. They froze one at day 3. The remaining 10 embryos all arrested and didn’t develop beyond then.
We have had feedback so far that the lab were happy with everything - no sign of lab errors occurring etc. Eggs and sperm all looked ‘normal’. Waiting for an appointment with the consultant to discuss further.
We were initially really undecided about even trying a frozen round with the day3 frozen as don’t see how that will continue to develop when the others didn’t. But after a consult with the nurse last week we have decided to - partly as we feel we will always wonder ‘what if’, if we don’t transfer it. And the nurse reassured us that they generally freeze the ‘best’ one at day 3, so maybe it’ll do something else, and sometimes they develop better in utero.
We felt really lost with the whole thing, as whilst we didn’t expect to be successful on our first transfer, expected to have more to show from that many eggs/embryos. From talking to people on various IVF support groups etc though, there seems to have been lots of people with similar rounds and then totally different outcomes the next time. So we are trying to be positive and hopeful.
Sorry, I don’t have a happy ending to reassure you, but sending understanding and supportive hugs your way. X